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Mojo is energy and life force. We all have access to it, but sometimes it feels like its been drained. It can be a gradual thing – we seem a little less inspired, and a little more like we need that wine after work. Sometimes though, mojo seems to vanish. Poof! Where did it go?
When we’re wanting our mojo back, the first and sometimes only place we look to is outside our self. We might blame the work load or our stresses at home. Whilst external situations can definitely impact mojo, I’m interested in what power we each hold to reignite our own mojo. If you’re interested in that too, read on.
There are two key places to look in to recover the joy of life.
1. The first is your health. Nothing works if you’re not on top of your health, and by health I mean physical, mental and spiritual. It’s the first place to look for recovering mojo, but don’t get stuck here. Some people with huge health challenges are in love with life and powering on! That said, some low hanging mojo fruit can be plucked here.
Physical health: eat well, not too often. Move your body. For men and women over 40, check your hormones! Protect your sleep.
Mental health: explore what interests you. Read books for pleasure. Develop your understanding in a certain field. Most of us are nerds about something – find your quirk and explore it! Follow your curiosity, even if its not practical or applicable. Meditate.
Spiritual health: we’re not cogs in a wheel; we are beings in a broader universe. It’s part of being human to yearn to evolve, to love, to be moved and inspired. Look for what feeds your soul and immerse yourself there. Practice moments of mindfulness. Pause and find something to be grateful for right where you are. Allow yourself to be moved by music or art. Lie under the night sky.
You’re all likely aware of the need to attend to your health, but you might not have linked it to mojo. To move from insight to something concrete, write down ONE action in each of these categories (physical, mental, spiritual) you can take today. Commit to a friend – or even better get a buddy, and support each other on following through.
2. The second place to look for mojo is in the quality of the meaning and purpose you have in your life. Mojo can be re-found when we are engaged in something that’s meaningful to us and we’re taking action in.
This may or may not be your actual job. At certain times in our life, circumstances and career, we come up against the limitations of what we know and are achieving. Unless we reinvent our work, or our relationship to it, we wither! This is normal but it’s painful, and feels a lot like we’ve lost our mojo. It’s true even if your work is intrinsically ‘worthy’. For myself, every 4-5 years at The Hunger Project I got to a point where I was a bit blah. The work, while still incredible, felt flat. At these times I reinvented how I related to it. I stepped back and redesigned the next arc of my work life and how I could express this. Mojo relit!
However, sometimes lack of mojo is an expression of erosion at a soul level. This can happen even when health, work and personal life are great. So what’s up?
What I’m seeing in droves is the numbness people are feeling when they look out into the world. Injustices are in our faces more than ever. We are turning off our hearts and minds because it feels overwhelming. We are resigned. We feel we can’t make a difference. We don’t know how to respond – and whether we can. Yet this turning away is costing us our mojo. There is a price to be paid when we know we could do something and we do nothing. When we silence our rage, our voice, our passion – something in us erodes.
Whistle blower Edward Snowden speaks to this feeling : “Every person remembers some moment in their life where they witnessed some injustice, big or small, and looked away because the consequences of intervening seemed too intimidating. But there’s a limit to the amount inhumanity that each individual can tolerate. I crossed that line. And I’m no longer alone.”
Acknowledging how you are feeling, and then engaging in some way to make a difference, or be heard, is vital to restoring mojo.
If this is a bit overwhelming, don’t despair! We don’t have to take giant leaps to activate our health and our purpose. When we’ve lost our mojo, we might feel we need to do something big and drastic to get it back. But actually small steps, accumulated over time, can start the flywheel, which then builds its own momentum. Consistency rather than grand gestures is key.
What will you do today that helps start the process of restoring your mojo? What support do you need to keep this process alive for you?
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There is nothing that makes me happier than The Sound of Music. Mum and I watch it every Christmas. Felt a little down today so this was perfect for listening to. Click the picture to listen to this song and I defy you not to smile.
Raindrops on roses
And whiskers on kittens
Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens
Brown paper packages tied up with strings
These are a few of my favorite things
Cream-colored ponies and crisp apple strudels
Doorbells and sleigh bells
And schnitzel with noodles
Wild geese that fly with the moon on their wings
These are a few of my favorite things
Girls in white dresses with blue satin sashes
Snowflakes that stay on my nose and eyelashes
Silver-white winters that melt into springs
These are a few of my favorite things
When the dog bites
When the bee stings
When I’m feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite things
And then I don’t feel so bad
So, these have been creeping into menus lately and I am currently reading Sarah Wilson’s book called ‘I quit sugar‘ and low and behold there was a recipe for said activated almonds. I am going to try them out tonight. Still skeptical but it’s worth giving it a go I guess.
I am going to try out her 8 week program as it sounds fantastic and I eat that much food as it is! Another Aussie called Kate (Inspired Mood) has done the same and she makes it easier to understand.
My best snack ever: activated nuts.You can buy these in health food shops, but they’re expensive. Make your own in bulk: soak a huge bag of almonds overnight in a pot of water with a tbls of rock salt. Drain. Lay out on a baking tray and “heat” in the oven at the lowest temperature possible (less than 65 C; for gas ovens – on the pilot light) for 12-24 hours. Crunchy, slightly toasty goodness. PLUS they’re full of enzymes – activated nuts have sprouted, which means their digestive enzymes have been activated, making them easier to digest, but also great for your metabolism overall. The more enzymes you eat, the less of your own body’s enzymes are required to break down food…which keeps you younger, longer.
I shot this video for my ‘2 seconds a day’ project and it made me really sad when I watched it back. They [supermarkets] are such lonely places with, mostly, sad sad food.
The site of: my wonderful friend Jamin and catchup up with him
The sound of: the early morning and how still it is
The touch of: fresh, white cotton
The smell of: fresh lemons
The taste of: sparkling water
I thought meditation was a load of old bollocks I have to say. I use to hate sitting still, I didn’t want to focus on my body I just wanted to get out and do stuff. In 2008, I took a two-month vacation from my life and, as I have mentioned here before, spent time ‘working on myself’ at The Perth Clinic which was an excellent place for me to be at that time.
It’s a little embarrassing to admit but I was reading GOOP about 6 weeks ago and stumbled up a post titled Time Saving Apps. In there, was a not so seriously named OMG I can Meditate App. It piqued my interest.
You see some 8 weeks ago my beloved partner was diagnosed with Stage 2 testicular cancer. At the age of 65, the doctors were amazing that a man of his age should contract this type of cancer; reserved mostly for young men of 20 – 30 years of age. I was beside myself.
It’s been a bit of a hard year and I just didn’t know how I was going to take this onboard as well. Having gone to the Dr and getting the usual sleeping pills and valium, I drove home from the pharmacist thinking – there just has to be another way. I cannot ‘drug’ my way through this crisis in my life. I just didn’t want to.
It was about 5 days after that Gwyneth, of all people, came knocking on my door this this little app.
Around the same time I met up with a very old friend and business mentor who had just finished a leadership course at Harvard Business School. Not only did she tell me how tough it was (duh!) but, surprisingly, she also told me that a lot of it was taken up with mindfulness and meditation. Go figure, the world really gives you what you need, when you need it.
So I clicked on the OMG app that night and started. It’s been around 5 weeks now and some days are much tougher than others to get into the zone, but it has really given me a sense of well being where I have not needed to take anything to sleep. Not only that I can concentrate on my work much more and feel a lot more productive.
I have enjoyed it so much so that I have now joined a 5 week course at the Perth Meditation Centre, luckily enough for me it’s just around the corner from home. I start on the 07/10 and I cannot wait to see how I progress.
There are a number of great resources online that I have also been reading – my favourite so far is Tara Brach. Well worth a listen.
I took this shot at the Sand patch just outside of Albany this weekend. Now this would be a beautiful place to meditate.